Sense of humour-Be happy by making others happy

Sometimes my sense of humour backfires. Which means instead of giving me pleasure by making someone happy,it slaps me on my face when someone feels hurt.This can be rightly called misuse of the sense of humour,if it is used to humiliate or belittle someone.If someone gets pleasure by doing this he/she is  nothing but a sadist.But,one's sense of humour is of no use, unless it's aim is-Be happy by making others happy.

Saying Good,Doing Good......

Someone saying good ,it should not mean that he is doing good. Now a days we  find so many people saying something  good  in the spheres  of politics,religion,culture,business  etc. Those who are doing something good hardly speak about their work , and they just don’t want unnecessary attention.They believe in doing not in saying.But,for  some saying is their business.Now my smart and intelligent friends will ask me –WHAT ARE YOU DOING?.of course I am saying something.

FACE IT,STILL YOU HAVE TIME....

Some time alcohol is a better option than suicide.But,I am not saying in favour of alcohol,rather I am against suicide.Suicide is a cowardly act,it is just giving up before reaching the dead end.If I am sure,I am inching towards a dead end,I will not end myself.Let the dead end face me and if possible it can bring an end to me.So when some one chooses alcohol instead of suicide,I see that the the person is still hopeful and loves life.He/She gives him/herself some more time.Who knows he/she may change his/her attitude towards life in the mean time.

© pinqbhanja.2012

INSPIRATION Vs HELP AND SUPPORT.

Inspiration plays a vital role in going ahead towards the goal or objective.It is a mental stimulus which gives wings to fly high and fast.The source of inspiration can be a person,a person’s work,an idea,an incident,a thought,a piece of art and nature. Some get inspiration from themselves, and they call it self inspiration.This is nothing but one’s strong desire to do something and this desire is his /her inspiration.Sometime we get lots of help and support but it helps little or it is of no help at all to reach our objective.When I was a student of +2 science(in my old bad days),I met a problem in physics to solve which was “which is easier- to push an object or pull it?”.Physics proves that pulling is easier than pushing it.There is no need to  prove it using some laws and rules of physics,one can have a simple experiment to know it.When we want to move the object,better option for us is to pull it,because it gives better result.This inspiration is just like that pull,where as any kind of support or help is like that push.Now,we have to decide which one is more important for us to achieve our objective in life.
I did not know that a problem in physics will help me solving a problem in life.

DO WE NEED TO BE REMEMBERED LONG AFTER WE DEPART FROM THIS WORLD?

It is a common advice “Do something so that you will be remembered long after you have departed from this world.”How many of us do something to be remembered forever in this world? Do not you think this nonsense, rather senseless? Honestly saying, I want to do something which will give me happiness and satisfaction and I will do it as long as I get happiness or satisfaction from doing this. I have done so many things in my life, for some I feel proud and satisfied and for some I regret and dissatisfied. So many things have given me lots of pleasure when I am alive. I will feel my life a worth living if I can be of any help to anyone in a positive way. For me, being remembered as someone who had said something or who had done something can be a dream not an objective.

marketing yourself.

We have heard so many good products failing in market because of bad marketing.It is not strange that people having many good qualities and good character may fail in their social and professional sphere just because of bad self marketing. In this  “jo dikhta hai wo bikta hai”  age, being good ,honest or sincere matters less than being smart and savvy.No one can expect that they are working hard and they will get rewarded for that and they will be recognised for any opportunity.

    In personality development classes you will be taught how you can be smart and  thats the most important attribute one should have for  success and survival.

So,what is the meaning of marketing yourself ?You should consider yourself as a product and you have to demonstrate to your prospective buyers  what service you can provide. Your buyers are your employer. The process of marketing yourself can be similar to the kind of marketing plan developed for a product or service.

sudden emergence of so many group of companies in Orissa.

Now in Orissa we find sudden emergence of so many group of companies, which I find astonishing.All most all the group of companies are in real estate,agriculture,financial and some are in medicine and healthcare and food products business.From the very beginning there are so many diversification in their business activity,which is more surprising.Even the business giants like TATAs,Amabanis wont dare to do so many diversified business.

I want to know,why they are so much enthusiastic.Is there any economical,social or political factor or combination of these ,responsible for the sudden emergence of these entrepreneurs?As I know from some of my information sources that all those entrepreneurs are directly or indirectly related to mining business.

I would like to have the valuable and timely response ,opinions and comments of my valued friends on this topic.

water in milk ..now it is milk in water....

All most all the flag bearers of ANNA HAZARE'S team campaigning (not fighting because it will be premature to say so) against corruption could not prove themselves spotless.All are involved in or beneficiary of some kind of illegal,improper or unfair means or activities.It may be Kiran Bedi's air ticket issue,kejriwal's salary issue,Prashant Bhushan's CD and now tax evasion issue.My point here is not in proving them corrupt,rather to show that how corruption is omnipresent in India.

We oppose corruption unless and until we have got our shares from it.It is a bitter truth and too hard to accept it publicly.Corruption is so widespread in India,because we Indians love it and practice it and we love to campaign against it. Corruption is not limited to bribe only, it includes favoritism,nepotism etc and we all are beneficiary of corrupt practices in either way. So many are involved in fight (???) against corruption,but there is no decrease in corruption.Reason is we all are campaigning,shouting and giving heavy speeches but cant keep ourselves away from it if there is something for us from some corrupt or unfair means.

Now, I fear that India against corruption movement will have an unnatural and premature death,which I dont expect to be.

We have accepted water in milk,but now it is milk in water...